Inspiring Workplaces: You Look Marvelous! No, Seriously!

Published: Wed, 10/08/14

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Humor at Work ISSUE 555 - Oct. 8,  2014
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You Look Marvelous! No, Seriously.    



October is official Sarcastic Awareness Month, which raises the question, "How sarcastic aware is your workplace?"  As tempting as it is to be sarcastic about the whole affair, here are a few non-sarcastic thoughts on the matter...

1. Although an Israeli research team has created an Algorithm for Sarcasm Identification software program that can detect sarcastic sentences in online product reviews with a 77 percent accuracy rate, we humans are still very poor at detecting sarcasm in written correspondence. A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, found that although respondents thought they were right 90% of the time, readers only have a 50/50 shot at correctly identifying the tone of an email. (Which brings to mind the term "sarchasm": the gulf between the author of a sarcastic wit and the person who doesn't get it.)
 
This problem has been around for a while. The difficulty of signalling textual irony was, in fact, first commented on in 1509 by the Dutch humanist Desiderius Erasmus, who complained about the lack of a punctuation mark that could signal sarcasm or irony. So it's likely best if we all embrace the old saying, "the written word does not smile" and be very careful about using sarcasm in emails or texts. Better yet, avoid it at all costs. Say what you mean and mean what you say.    

2. Since sarcasm comes from a Greek term translating roughly as "to tear at flesh like a dog," also be very wary of using sarcasm in any workplace face-to-face communication, or else you'll end up losing face.  Studies show there's a far greater likelihood of people using and understanding sarcasm with the people we feel closest to, and you may be able to get away with sarcasm in some workplace relationships, but with new relationships (for example, well, customers) sarcasm should be avoided unless you want to make a huge impression on someone. (Am I being sarcastic? Hmm.) 
 
3. I met a manager years ago who was so notoriously sarcastic his employees created a "Sarcasm Scale" that hung on his office door. Each morning he would adjust the arrow on the Sarcasm Scale to indicate how sarcastic a mood he was likely going to be in that day. It was a fun way of reminding him to be aware of how he might be coming across and a reminder of everyone not to always take his comments at face value. 
 
4. A simple idea to monitor the tone in your meetings: Have a noise maker or colored flag available that everyone uses to either signal their intent to be sarcastic OR use when they want to humorously call someone out for their use of sarcasm.
 
5. In some circumstances, some employees may only feel comfortable delivering a serious message with a sarcastic tone. And although it's not preferable, wise leaders should learn to read between the punch lines and consider whether there's an uncomfortable truth being communicated that needs to be addressed. There's an old story, for example, of an automobile company that was closing down plant after plant as a way of cutting costs. When one of the sales managers piped up during a meeting with the comment, "Imagine how much money we'll save if we closed down ALL the plants!", the senior leaders reconsidered their strategy.  But for the most part, a sarcastic-free zone is likely going to create a healthier, more positive workplace environment. Seriously. No I really mean it.      
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    Mike's Fun at Work Tip
 
Speaking of the sarcastically-challenged, when uber-nerd Sheldon Cooper of "The Big Bang Theory" dons one of his Green Lantern shirts, he's not just making a fashion choice. The color of his shirt gives a hint as to what Sheldon's mood is on that particular day. Similarly, there's an office where the entire team has a color-coded fashion system that lets everyone know everyone's mood on any given day. So wearing black might mean "stay away - I'm swamped today," yellow could signal, "I need help!", and green could mean "I'm ready to tackle anything!"  
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    Quote of the Week
 

"If you are having trouble laughing at yourself, I'd be happy to do it for you." Groucho Marx   
 
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    It's a Wacky World

Some accidentally funny humor found lurking on the pages of insurance claims: 
 
"The guy was all over the road, I had to swerve a number of times before I hit him."
 
"In an attempt to kill a fly, I drove into a telephone pole."
 
"I had been driving my car for 40 years when I fell asleep at the wheel and had an accident!"
 
"I pulled away from the side of the road, glanced at my mother-in-law, and headed over an embankment!" 
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